"(sexual and self exploration is) a lot like the ocean: vast, sometimes scary, but also filled with abundance and opportunity!  I want to be a sturdy ship for those intrepid explorers... I want people to get everything they want out of their exploration and It's my destiny to help them along their journey." -Ezra

Who is Ezra?

Ezra is an Intimacy Coach at House Of Algos Inc.  He is the founder and Headmaster of the Leather/BDSM household, The House Of Algos.  He co-founded the Triskelion Scholarship for BDSM education and is the Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX Studios.  Ezra also authored Mindfucking Mindfully, which was published in May of 2021.

When asked "Why Intimacy Coaching?", Ezra responded with "This is the fulfillment of my destiny as best I can understand it."  He went on to talk about how from an early age he was drawn to teaching and helping others directly.  Through his own journey of discovery in the BDSM community and through personal development it became clear what he was meant to do.  He was meant to work with individuals and couples to help them better accept themselves, each other, learn to communicate better, and live full lives as sexual beings.  Ezra said "I knew that I was on the right path when I found the coaching sessions were feeding my soul!"

When asked about the theme of the website and why the ocean motif Ezra said "I know that self exploration and fetish exploration can be really intimidating.  It's a lot like the ocean, vast, sometimes scary, but also filled with abundance, opportunity!  I want to be a sturdy ship for those intrepid explorers.  I want to be their stability, their certainty, their guide.  I want people to get everything they want out of their exploration and It's my destiny to help them along their journey."

Ezra insists that everyone feel welcome regardless of sex, gender, sexuality, skin color, etcetera.  It is easy to feel like the only one suffering just the way you are, but here you are not alone.  You are worthy of love and acceptance just the way you are.  Ezra is happy to serve members of the LGBTQIA+ community especially those that identify as trans or non-binary.  It is important to specifically welcome trans-folks because it can be really challenging to not know where service providers stand on trans inclusivity and I don't want anyone to wonder. 

The Intimacy Coaching methods that Ezra employs are based on personal empowerment through, self knowledge, acceptance, and communication.  The practice of empathy and acceptance are foundational to the practice.  Everyone should have a chance to live a full life with amazing intimacy and wonderful relationships.  It's never too late for sexual exploration and why go it alone when you can have Ezra to help guide you?

Sir Ezra's Intimacy Coaching Specialties:

  • Age Role Play

  • Anal Exploration

  • Animal Role Play

  • Sexual Skill 

  • BDSM

  • Consensual Power Exchange

  • Confidence in Bed

  • Dom/sub

  • Edge Play

  • Edging

  • Erotic humiliation play

  • Exploring Kinks

  • Fantasy Fulfillment

  • Group Sex

  • Gender Expansion

  • How to Approach People
  • Master/slave

  • Mindfucking and Mental play

  • Negotiating with a Partner

  • Overcoming Fear of Rejection

  • Polyamory

  • Power Dynamics

  • Processing Shame

  • Role Play

  • Service Submission

  • Sexual Empowerment

  • Somatic Methods

  • Therapeutic Kink

  • Top/Bottom